I was at my dorm room in college where the door closes automatically and doesn’t stay open. Me and my roommate were having a social gathering and Kelly from dance moms was there and she wanted to prop the door. I gave her my shoe to prop the door because we didn’t have a doorstop. The only shoe that would work was a heel which I had never worn and still had the tags on it. So I gave it to her but she said she didn’t want to use it because her new year’s resolution was to not use shoes with the tags on. And then I got mad because she was being difficult and then I woke up.
The dream could suggest your desire for maintaining boundaries and privacy in your personal life represented by the dorm room door that automatically closes. The fact that you and your roommate were having a social gathering indicates your need for social interaction and connection.
The presence of Kelly from Dance Moms could symbolize an influential and authoritative figure in your waking life. However, her desire to prop the door and your willingness to give her your shoe could represent accommodating others' needs or desires even if it inconveniences you. This may suggest that you tend to put others' needs before your own.
The fact that you gave her a shoe with tags on it, which you had never worn, could symbolize a sense of hesitation or insecurity in asserting your own boundaries. It may imply that you are not fully confident in expressing your own needs and preferences.
Kelly's refusal to use the shoe and her explanation about her New Year's resolution could reflect a clash of values or different priorities. This disagreement may have led to your frustration and anger in the dream, indicating pent-up emotions or a need to assert yourself more assertively in your waking life.
Overall, the dream could be highlighting the importance of balance between being accommodating to others while also assertively asserting your own needs and boundaries. It may be beneficial to reflect on situations in your waking life where you may need to find a better balance between these aspects.